Post by STORMDANCER on Nov 22, 2011 0:27:51 GMT
Love and Life are an endless journey that takes you down a long and winding road. You must walk the path of life alone for a while looking for love eventually you may find love, and when you do you are presented with two paths to follow one being Love and the other being Life. You must choose one to walk down. If you choose to walk down the road of life you will find that it is lonely and treacherous,
with many bumps and obstacles. There will also be many other small paths along the way that you may
or may not choose to take. At the end of the journey you will be tired and worn, broken and battered.
This is to be expected since you've made this journey alone. The path of life ends and there is nothing there to reward you for all your torment you enter into a darkness that you have created on your own, and you wonder if it as all worth it.
If you choose the path of Love you will find the road to very smooth and straight you will be presented with the same small paths that you may or may not choose, but somehow the decisions are easier to make. There may and probably will be a few bumps along this path as well but you will find that these bumps are much smaller and are easily overcome. When you reach the end of this path you realise that you are full of energy and the promise to continue on is offered.
The reason for this is that the journey of Love never ends you will also realise that as you walked the path of Love you also walked the path of Life. You did not notice that you were walking the torturous path of Life because you were not alone you walked alongside someone else the entire trip this made all the bumps and turns of Life’s' path almost unnoticeable. All decisions and hardships were shared taking most of the difficulty away.
You are now at the beginning of a new journey one that takes you and the one you love down a path of everlasting Love and Happiness and you will walk this path together. Then you are truly blessed, as you always will be if you walk the path of Love. So walk in Love and you shall find happiness ever after.
Be careful lolo that you are not living in a dream world and afraid of being rejected in the real world. Don’t go building sandcastles in the sky in your head because you will then feel rejected by your own daydreams because the reality is that you need some sort of inspiration for these illusions and at the moment he is not a part of your life.
Quite frankly, any sadness you are feeling is for the most part, your own creation because you are not interested in keeping your feet in reality and have been too busy finding yourself lost in your own world.
In doing this, you’re not seeing the signs that are telling you that you need to get real, and you’re not hearing signs that you need to get real. In fact, This man who is causing you this sadness may have no clue that you are even interested in him again the way you used to be , or if he was , he may have told you that he was not interested and you switched to unreciprocated feelings mode and hovered there expecting him to see you in the way that you want to be seen and magically catch up with your feelings. I really think that you will understand where I am coming from when I say this.
Take things at face value and live in the moment, see things for what they really are so when he doesn’t call, it’s because he doesn’t want to speak with you, not because he’s waiting for you to make a move. When you don’t hear from him for weeks, it’s not because you did something wrong that you need to figure out – it’s because you are not in a relationship and whilst you are daydreaming about your life, he is out there living his.
I say this because one you understand where you both are at this time you then see clearly and can start to work on building bridges etc knowing the truth and how things really are. Remember we women are emotional in our feelings and thinking, men are totally the opposite they look at things in a more constructive way and don’t understand when we women get upset or worried. I would say be friendly with him, don’t over power him an odd txt and a hello is nice. You know the old saying:
“If you love somebody, let them go. If they return, they were always yours. If they don't, they never were.”
Let the Universe do its work and just let things unfold as they are ment to be.
Ok now your card reading xxx
Card 1: Six of wands (Past)
This card shows that you have gained a lot in your past; you had balanced energy, love and success. I think you worked hard and you should congratulate yourself for how far you have come in your life and what you have achieved. I think you deserve to be recognised for this. Remember though that even though you worked hard in the past you still need to work to make things better for the future so don’t rest long on your laurels. This card also represents dreams; ideas, hopes etc so never give up on what you want in life.
Card 2: The Knight of Wands (Present)
The Knight of Wands is an ‘act first, think later’ type of guy. He is impatient and impulsive, with a love for action. The downside to the Knight of Wands is that while he is bursting with energy and enthusiasm, he has a tendency to rush into things without much consideration for the consequences of his actions. He sets off on his journey in haste and often fails to have a clear plan of attack and this may negatively impact his chances of longer-term success. He is so focused on being the best and of fame and glory that he almost forgets to plan ahead and to keep sight of reality. The Knight of Wands can also come across as aggressive and overly ambitious. He is highly insistent even if others stand in his way, criticise him or challenge him.
When you encounter the Knight of Wands in a reading, it is important that you start your creative projects with great enthusiasm and energy but you also temper this with a well-rounded, realistic and balanced view along with a well-considered plan that takes into account any future consequences of your actions. You need to show ambition and move from where you are now to where you know you should be to increase your effectiveness in the world. There is nothing wrong with ambition if it is channelled in the right way. Be a pioneer and take calculated risks.
The Knight of Wands may indicate an event that enters your life quickly and unexpectedly. Coupled with the six of Wands, you can expect to see a lot of change and action occurring around you, and you will no doubt be swept up by the restless, ‘busy’ energy whether you like it or not! An important matter is likely to enter your life and demand your attention until it passes. Rather than resisting it, make the time to give it your full attention. Oftentimes, the Knight of Wands can indicate a hasty change of residence, job or other living arrangement. You need to be ready to react quickly and go with the flow as resistance is useless.
Card 3: The Lovers (future)
The Lovers represent perfection, harmony and mutual attractiveness. Their trust in one another gives them strength and confidence to overcome the obstacles in life. The bond that the two lovers has created is incredibly strong and is often reflective of a marriage, soul mate connection or very intimate and close relationship.
The Lovers can also indicate a very strong sexual connection that goes beyond instant gratification and lust to suggest a very deep desire and passion that exists between two beings. The physical attraction is strong and so too is the desire to be intimate with one another.
On a more personal level, the Lovers card represents the establishment of a personal belief system and becoming clearer about your own values. This is a time when you are figuring out what you stand for and what your personal philosophy on life is. Having gone through the indoctrination of the Hierophant, you are now ready to establish your own belief system and make up your own mind about what is and what is not important in life. This is also a time when you need to stay true to yourself and be as authentic and genuine as possible.
The Lovers also represents choices on a grand scale. A dilemma will be presented demanding an action or decision, and you will want to decipher the best way to proceed or make the right choice. Something is going to change your plans or the course of your experience, something that may look negative on the surface but will later prove to be a blessing in disguise.
When the Lovers card appears in a reading, it is important to think about what decisions and choices you are facing. The fact that the Lovers is a Major Arcana card indicates that these decisions or choices are incredibly important and significant so it is essential that you choose the right path. There may be an easy option available but you will need to ask yourself whether this is the right path for you in the long run. Oftentimes, it is the more difficult path that will bring you the greatest benefit, particularly on a deeper level.
If you find yourself at a moral crossroads where you must choose between taking the moral high ground or the low ground, then you need to consider all consequences before acting. The Lovers card highlights that your own value system is being challenged, and you must make a definite choice based on that system. The choices are never really easy or obvious, either. Unlike the Fool’s choice which has no wrong answer, the choice of the Lovers is very much right or wrong because one of those options will almost certainly take you down a negative path. Thus, it is wise to seek higher guidance before making your final decision. You must be completely honest with yourself in the situation. Do not take things strictly on face value but deeply examine your motives, your feelings, your options and your personal values.
Hope this Helps
Peace and Love
Storm xxxxx
