Post by XANTO on Oct 28, 2011 19:06:03 GMT
If you need some affirmations to help you to get on with people you don't like or that don't like you try these.
Remember you're not always going to like everyone you meet nor are they always going to like you. You can't force the issue and sometimes you just stop liking people you are friendly with for one reason or another, things in yourself change all the time.
Caring is good, but 1st priority is caring for self. If you are caring & open-minded, being around people will influence you. Some are more easily influenced than others, depending on:
1. How self-secure you are & how you care for yourself.
2. Trust &/or expectations. ie...If you expect someone to be encouraging when he/she has a pattern of being discouraging then you're banging your head against a wall, wishing/expecting it to become a door. Part of caring for self is establishing boundaries with people until they change (don't hold your breath) or until you become stronger in relating to them in assertive, healthy ways & you feel peace around them. So expectations & trust (in the form of physical or emotional boundaries) must be appropriate. That way, when people act rudely, it's not taken personally because you already knows that's the other person's pattern of behavior.
With that in mind... here are a few affirmations...
I am surrounded by love.
I enjoy people & find the best in them.
I come from the loving space of my heart & know that love opens new possibilities.
I rejoice in the love I encounter every day.
I was born to learn to love myself more & to share that love with people around me.
I am open to receiving & extending love.
xanto
Remember you're not always going to like everyone you meet nor are they always going to like you. You can't force the issue and sometimes you just stop liking people you are friendly with for one reason or another, things in yourself change all the time.
Caring is good, but 1st priority is caring for self. If you are caring & open-minded, being around people will influence you. Some are more easily influenced than others, depending on:
1. How self-secure you are & how you care for yourself.
2. Trust &/or expectations. ie...If you expect someone to be encouraging when he/she has a pattern of being discouraging then you're banging your head against a wall, wishing/expecting it to become a door. Part of caring for self is establishing boundaries with people until they change (don't hold your breath) or until you become stronger in relating to them in assertive, healthy ways & you feel peace around them. So expectations & trust (in the form of physical or emotional boundaries) must be appropriate. That way, when people act rudely, it's not taken personally because you already knows that's the other person's pattern of behavior.
With that in mind... here are a few affirmations...
I am surrounded by love.
I enjoy people & find the best in them.
I come from the loving space of my heart & know that love opens new possibilities.
I rejoice in the love I encounter every day.
I was born to learn to love myself more & to share that love with people around me.
I am open to receiving & extending love.
xanto
