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Post by andy on Nov 17, 2011 22:39:59 GMT
I am like really angry at the moment like and i am shouting at mi mum and she was crying tonight but i was like so mad i dunno why think its just work an i come home and take it out on her but i feel like real bad and wondered if you had any advice to help me?
smokingmonkey
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Post by paulmurdoch1975 on Nov 18, 2011 0:56:19 GMT
Hey smoking monkey the answers already with you my freind what do you think you need to do now act on it you will always go with what you feel is right . many things are said in haste but you never truly mean it mum will understand . you can tell your a good bloke by the way your thinking if you didnt feel guilty then thats a different story .
well done and i know you will do whats right .
Hugs & Blessings .
AngelGabriel
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Post by nicole9999 on Nov 21, 2011 4:07:26 GMT
Sometimes we take out our emotions on the ones we love the most because we trust they will never leave us. When I was younger my Mom and I had a rocky relationship. I loved her so much but I think sometimes I forgot she was a person with feelings too. It has taken me a while but I have learned to respect her more. Take a breath when you want to say hurtful things. HUGS!!!
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Post by andy on Nov 22, 2011 0:56:51 GMT
Thanks nicole yeh I know wat u mean my mum is ace she has given me her car 2 use cos mine broke and its bein mended she does a lot an i dont appreciate wot she does sumtimes i guess. thanks for that it like made me think.
smokingmonkey
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Post by shadowfox on Dec 21, 2011 22:35:10 GMT
hey smokin, it is good to see that you realize that you feel remorse for your actions. This means you understand something wrong has happened. I know you love your mother to death my friend, we can make many suggestions to you as to what you can do, but it is you that knows what needs to be done. Your love for your mother is the key, take a few moments and think about it, and i know the answer will come to you.
Only you and your mother know the entire situation, so only the two of you can come to an agreement.
I know you will do what is needed, both you and your mother are Ace in my books.
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Post by marianne 50 on Jan 12, 2012 0:44:19 GMT
take deep breaths before you start shouting , try to stay zen and meditate and pray as much as possible. i have no mother anymore and shouted to her also, now i miss her and wish i had been nicer towards her. may the angels guide you ! hugs from me to you .
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Post by Mysticangel on Jan 12, 2012 18:24:39 GMT
Maybe some stress relief after work before you come home? Maybe just going to the shop for tea just to take a breather, or going to a store just to walk around, anything to maybe settle yourself before you go home could help.
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